Maybe Fidelity is a overblown concept. Since many males and females had prior sex partners then there was then no exclusivity before so keep it that way. If there is an occasional partner outside of marriage maybe we should treat it as no big deal? Or get over it. A fling is a fling is a fling. Only three flings in a lifetime marriage! Concepts here.
This dude advocated ivermectin and said party drugs like poppers may cause aids. He’s a known misinformation spreader and hack retrying to capitalize on the fearful that find solace in fringe and conspiracy.
1:18 – Not all polyamorous relationships are sexual. Poly (many) amorous (love) Multiples loving/romantic partners – You can have a romantic relationship with someone and not have sex.
I found it interesting that he expressed his worry that the problem with polyamory is, it will devolve into polygyny, with men of any age always breaking up with older women so they can date hot young women who are closer to 20 years old and that older women will have no one who wants them once they're older… when the reality is, most of the time, when an older man and woman in a monogamous relationship decide to try polyamory, often because the man is dreaming of chasing younger women, it turns out his wife gets all the action as tons of men are, in fact, interested in older women, while usually the man ends up having a hard time getting any other women to date him, never mind those hot young 20-year-olds who just find the old guy creepy. Usually the result seems to be more likely a woman getting tons of attention and easily picking up multiple partners, while men have a hard time finding more than one partner.
Maybe Fidelity is a overblown concept. Since many males and females had prior sex partners then there was then no exclusivity before so keep it that way. If there is an occasional partner outside of marriage maybe we should treat it as no big deal? Or get over it. A fling is a fling is a fling. Only three flings in a lifetime marriage! Concepts here.
This dude advocated ivermectin and said party drugs like poppers may cause aids. He’s a known misinformation spreader and hack retrying to capitalize on the fearful that find solace in fringe and conspiracy.
1:18 – Not all polyamorous relationships are sexual.
Poly (many) amorous (love) Multiples loving/romantic partners – You can have a romantic relationship with someone and not have sex.
I found it interesting that he expressed his worry that the problem with polyamory is, it will devolve into polygyny, with men of any age always breaking up with older women so they can date hot young women who are closer to 20 years old and that older women will have no one who wants them once they're older… when the reality is, most of the time, when an older man and woman in a monogamous relationship decide to try polyamory, often because the man is dreaming of chasing younger women, it turns out his wife gets all the action as tons of men are, in fact, interested in older women, while usually the man ends up having a hard time getting any other women to date him, never mind those hot young 20-year-olds who just find the old guy creepy. Usually the result seems to be more likely a woman getting tons of attention and easily picking up multiple partners, while men have a hard time finding more than one partner.
He’s just rambling. No case against the concept whatsoever.