First and foremost I have great respect for Jordan Peterson and his ideology. Do I think there are some serious pitfalls in his thinking? Sure. But I think you can't answer such a question because who is 'people'? I know I am comfortable with moderately non-traditional gender roles. It's only when people dictate how I should approach them beyond a basically respectful attitudes (pronouns, i'm looking at you) that I balk / don't feel the need to comply. I am a straight man who has explored my sexuality and there is a great deal of femininity in me that is not apparent when you would make my acquaintance. I think a non-judgemental attitude is paramount. Be kind, live and let live, don't get in each other's way and keep things respectful, that's all. You are who you are in the eye of the beholder but that doesn't mean you can't have gender attributes outside of that scope. And it certainly doesn't mean you need to advertise them at every corner. The people who want to know can get to know you. Those who don't, well whatever, right? To finish this answer: I know three guys that are stay at home dads and they love it.
First and foremost I have great respect for Jordan Peterson and his ideology. Do I think there are some serious pitfalls in his thinking? Sure. But I think you can't answer such a question because who is 'people'? I know I am comfortable with moderately non-traditional gender roles. It's only when people dictate how I should approach them beyond a basically respectful attitudes (pronouns, i'm looking at you) that I balk / don't feel the need to comply. I am a straight man who has explored my sexuality and there is a great deal of femininity in me that is not apparent when you would make my acquaintance. I think a non-judgemental attitude is paramount. Be kind, live and let live, don't get in each other's way and keep things respectful, that's all. You are who you are in the eye of the beholder but that doesn't mean you can't have gender attributes outside of that scope. And it certainly doesn't mean you need to advertise them at every corner. The people who want to know can get to know you. Those who don't, well whatever, right? To finish this answer: I know three guys that are stay at home dads and they love it.