Joe Rogan Experience #1137 - Duncan Trussell FYTube

Most of us human beings find it much easier to tell ourselves that we feel good about something or someone rather than to admit to yourself and project that we actually we don’t.
We don’t have to swallow our pride and ask for help or own up to your mistakes.
We don’t have to quit the job that we hate.
We don’t have to tell our partner how we truly feel.
We don’t have to deal with our substance abuse problem because hey! Everything’s fine.
Smile n wave & keep on pretending….
A classic human move, just go through life pretending rather than living. There’s barely one nigga that will even get the chance to truly go for something in life without thinking of what others think of them, experience true compassion for others and for the earth because we sent so much time tryna conform society and the expectation of your peers and loose the ability to listen to your heart.
the longer that you distract yourself from properly letting your mind rest, and having“set and stone” attitudes about what u know. the longer and harder it will take to convince you anything differently… it takes going through a lot of pain and guilt to even want to learn about this shit.
I’ve come to the realization that it takes very little courage to act like u are fine, but truthfully exposing yourself, deeply embracing our desires, trying to understand what it is that is depriving you from maximizing your potential and facing your fears? Now that’s a trumendous load of courage that comes with that…
I know It’s easier to pretend than to be truly honest wityourself , but what’s the point? It comes with a steep price….
If I pretend to be happy in a relationship when my true feelings clearly say something else, how can I improve my relationship?
If I’m constantly trying to be someone who doesn’t love me , how can I create meaningful relationships with people who would have loved me if only I had given them a chance to know who I really am?
I wanted my relationships with others to be meaningful, profound, and emotionally rewarding. I didn’t want to constantly analyze every word that crosses my mind, and handpick only those that will earn me the approval of the person I’m speaking to.
It might be time for you to stop pretending and start being truly honest with yourself. Otherwise, you could miss a chance to find a job, partnership, Best friend idk but something that leaves you excited to wake up every morning and meet people who love you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be….There is a difference between people who pretend they don’t care verses people who actually don’t care but struggle with completely knowing their self worth or their feelings!! Which is ok, it’s a mish being human…

Anyone who pretends they don’t/do care is going ignore their hurt feelings and vulnerability
But Anyone who actually doesn’t/doescare is going to acknowledge and embrace their feelings.
The person who pretends don’t/do care is going to be bitter and resentful.
The person who actually doesn’t care is going to be thankful that they saw your true colours.
The person who pretends don’t care is going to teach you how you can do better.
The person who actually doesn’t care is continually working on self improvement… AND isn’t going to spend all their time trying to fix you.
The person who pretends they don’t care is going to a a nagging complaining and whine fest.
The person who pretends doesn’t care are going to let distancing themselves from you solve their problems

In reality not actually caring has nothing to do with being cruel or unsympathetic towards people and everything to do with stating your boundaries. sticking to them and loving yourself enough to walk away if necissary. It doesn’t happen overnight. It doesn’t mean that you don’t feel hurt, betrayal, or pain.
What it does mean is that in spite of your feelings you know your self worth and what you deserve.
Feelings are temporary, you can work on them, but dignity is priceless…..People who is constantly pretending to care u like learn how the game works after time if you really do care and are confused.
For starters, when someone isn’t being themselves, you can never fully trust them. Fake people make plans they don’t keep. It’s a real reason to understand the type of person you are dealing with and how much respect they have for you and your time .Fake people disappear when you need them most. They hang around when they get what they need from you, but the minute you need something from them, they bail.
Fake people pretend not to be upset about things.
Anyone who says they never get mad or angry at anything or anyone is full of it. Of course, everyone gets mad at something.
But when fake people are deep undercover in their personas they’ve worked so hard to craft, it’s all part of the plan to make people think they are something they are not.
Come on now, everyone gets mad at something
Fake people are never around or available.
You call and call and they never return your calls. You show up, but they are busy. They have a “meeting” or broken car part, some random shit. There’s always some reason or another about why this person doesn’t want to hang out with you, but constantly tells you they can’t wait to see you again.
What’s up with that? It’s called being fake. They don’t have the balls to tell you they don’t want to be friends. Take the hint and move on
Fake people never initiate a conversation or date, fuck, sesh They don’t call you and invite you anywhere. They are always hanging out with other people, and they often neglect to engage you in the friendship.
Fake people hide from their fakeness with other people’s drama
if they spend most of their time talking about other people, and not themselves and we’re not talking about good conversation.
the most destructive kind of conversation there is. they are trying to distract you with someone else’s nonsense so you don’t see theirs saying bad things about other people is a great way to distract from their own crap lives and make you think that they have their acts together.
It’s a game of cat and mouse in the truest sense they spit out some bullshit about someone and you chase after that information trying to validate it instead of trying to validate their story.
Fake people like to show off in front of other people.
Whether they know the group of people or not, someone who is trying hard to be anyone but who they really are is going to show off so that people believe the act they are putting on for everyone.
It’s troublesome and frankly, kind of awkward when you realize someone is showing off so that people don’t get to know the real them. It’s hard to imagine someone would want you to believe untrue things about them, but lots of people do it.
you can point out the fact that you think the person is being fake or point out any thing negative & don’t appreciate the misrepresentation they are making about themselves.
You can explain the kind of position their behavior puts you in and that you aren’t going to tolerate it anymore. They will most certainly try to turn the mirror on you for some backlash.
Just like narcissistic people, you can’t fix chronic liars, which is what fake people are: liars.
Life’s too short to waste time on that shit There are lots of ways to tell if someone is being fake, not the least of which is if you get that feeling in your stomach that something’s just not right.
If you get a yucky feeling in your belly about someone, it’s highly unlikely that you are wrong. Trust your gut when you meet people and if you find that someone is talking about everything except themselves, there’s a good chance it’s because they don’t want you to know anything about them.
It’s a charade and it takes a lot of work to keep it going…

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@phillipesmith5401 says:

1 July 2024 at 02:42

Congress can vote to raise their pay

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@noffy2208 says:

1 July 2024 at 02:42

2020
Looking for people to build a garden with…

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@joaopedropressatofreitas8848 says:

1 July 2024 at 02:42

I am that guy with the bullshit job

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1 July 2024 at 02:42

#trussell2024

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@stellsharlow7213 says:

1 July 2024 at 02:42

Most of us human beings find it much easier to tell ourselves that we feel good about something or someone rather than to admit to yourself and project that we actually we don’t.
We don’t have to swallow our pride and ask for help or own up to your mistakes.
We don’t have to quit the job that we hate.
We don’t have to tell our partner how we truly feel.
We don’t have to deal with our substance abuse problem because hey! Everything’s fine.
Smile n wave & keep on pretending….
A classic human move, just go through life pretending rather than living. There’s barely one nigga that will even get the chance to truly go for something in life without thinking of what others think of them, experience true compassion for others and for the earth because we sent so much time tryna conform society and the expectation of your peers and loose the ability to listen to your heart.
the longer that you distract yourself from properly letting your mind rest, and having“set and stone” attitudes about what u know. the longer and harder it will take to convince you anything differently… it takes going through a lot of pain and guilt to even want to learn about this shit.
I’ve come to the realization that it takes very little courage to act like u are fine, but truthfully exposing yourself, deeply embracing our desires, trying to understand what it is that is depriving you from maximizing your potential and facing your fears? Now that’s a trumendous load of courage that comes with that…
I know It’s easier to pretend than to be truly honest wityourself , but what’s the point? It comes with a steep price….
If I pretend to be happy in a relationship when my true feelings clearly say something else, how can I improve my relationship?
If I’m constantly trying to be someone who doesn’t love me , how can I create meaningful relationships with people who would have loved me if only I had given them a chance to know who I really am?
I wanted my relationships with others to be meaningful, profound, and emotionally rewarding. I didn’t want to constantly analyze every word that crosses my mind, and handpick only those that will earn me the approval of the person I’m speaking to.
It might be time for you to stop pretending and start being truly honest with yourself. Otherwise, you could miss a chance to find a job, partnership, Best friend idk but something that leaves you excited to wake up every morning and meet people who love you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be….There is a difference between people who pretend they don’t care verses people who actually don’t care but struggle with completely knowing their self worth or their feelings!! Which is ok, it’s a mish being human…

Anyone who pretends they don’t/do care is going ignore their hurt feelings and vulnerability
But Anyone who actually doesn’t/doescare is going to acknowledge and embrace their feelings.
The person who pretends don’t/do care is going to be bitter and resentful.
The person who actually doesn’t care is going to be thankful that they saw your true colours.
The person who pretends don’t care is going to teach you how you can do better.
The person who actually doesn’t care is continually working on self improvement… AND isn’t going to spend all their time trying to fix you.
The person who pretends they don’t care is going to a a nagging complaining and whine fest.
The person who pretends doesn’t care are going to let distancing themselves from you solve their problems

In reality not actually caring has nothing to do with being cruel or unsympathetic towards people and everything to do with stating your boundaries. sticking to them and loving yourself enough to walk away if necissary. It doesn’t happen overnight. It doesn’t mean that you don’t feel hurt, betrayal, or pain.
What it does mean is that in spite of your feelings you know your self worth and what you deserve.
Feelings are temporary, you can work on them, but dignity is priceless…..People who is constantly pretending to care u like learn how the game works after time if you really do care and are confused.
For starters, when someone isn’t being themselves, you can never fully trust them. Fake people make plans they don’t keep. It’s a real reason to understand the type of person you are dealing with and how much respect they have for you and your time .Fake people disappear when you need them most. They hang around when they get what they need from you, but the minute you need something from them, they bail.
Fake people pretend not to be upset about things.
Anyone who says they never get mad or angry at anything or anyone is full of it. Of course, everyone gets mad at something.
But when fake people are deep undercover in their personas they’ve worked so hard to craft, it’s all part of the plan to make people think they are something they are not.
Come on now, everyone gets mad at something
Fake people are never around or available.
You call and call and they never return your calls. You show up, but they are busy. They have a “meeting” or broken car part, some random shit. There’s always some reason or another about why this person doesn’t want to hang out with you, but constantly tells you they can’t wait to see you again.
What’s up with that? It’s called being fake. They don’t have the balls to tell you they don’t want to be friends. Take the hint and move on
Fake people never initiate a conversation or date, fuck, sesh They don’t call you and invite you anywhere. They are always hanging out with other people, and they often neglect to engage you in the friendship.
Fake people hide from their fakeness with other people’s drama
if they spend most of their time talking about other people, and not themselves and we’re not talking about good conversation.
the most destructive kind of conversation there is. they are trying to distract you with someone else’s nonsense so you don’t see theirs saying bad things about other people is a great way to distract from their own crap lives and make you think that they have their acts together.
It’s a game of cat and mouse in the truest sense they spit out some bullshit about someone and you chase after that information trying to validate it instead of trying to validate their story.
Fake people like to show off in front of other people.
Whether they know the group of people or not, someone who is trying hard to be anyone but who they really are is going to show off so that people believe the act they are putting on for everyone.
It’s troublesome and frankly, kind of awkward when you realize someone is showing off so that people don’t get to know the real them. It’s hard to imagine someone would want you to believe untrue things about them, but lots of people do it.
you can point out the fact that you think the person is being fake or point out any thing negative & don’t appreciate the misrepresentation they are making about themselves.
You can explain the kind of position their behavior puts you in and that you aren’t going to tolerate it anymore. They will most certainly try to turn the mirror on you for some backlash.
Just like narcissistic people, you can’t fix chronic liars, which is what fake people are: liars.
Life’s too short to waste time on that shit There are lots of ways to tell if someone is being fake, not the least of which is if you get that feeling in your stomach that something’s just not right.
If you get a yucky feeling in your belly about someone, it’s highly unlikely that you are wrong. Trust your gut when you meet people and if you find that someone is talking about everything except themselves, there’s a good chance it’s because they don’t want you to know anything about them.
It’s a charade and it takes a lot of work to keep it going…

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