Taken from JRE #1504 w/Alan Levinovitz: https://youtu.be/NpOxxzOhZyg
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Taken from JRE #1504 w/Alan Levinovitz: https://youtu.be/NpOxxzOhZyg
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No. Just no. Humans evolved to lie for a reason. Sure, it can be used for evil but it has a VERY necessary social component.
they both come closely together attached
Something I just realized watching this video again after like 2 years. Is that when you provide a solution that you don't have to be a part of, that it's all their responsibility to apply. Not saying that isn't true. But you are projecting to them that "We are not equals", "I don't share this human experience you are going through", "You are alone", "I am not your ally and maybe you have no allies", "This isn't my problem / this is your problem / you have become a problem for me"
Be kind instead.
My mom says '' SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, MEAN WHAT YOU SAY, BUT DONT SAY IT MEAN'
It really depends on the context and tone of voice